CHARLOTTE, N.C. — The Golden Rule—“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”—has long been hailed as a guiding principle for life. It underscores the importance of treating others with kindness, empathy, and respect.
Yet, as powerful as this rule may be, there's an essential amendment that must be added to truly navigate the complexities of human interaction: teach others how to treat you.
Consider this: people will treat you based on their perception of how you treat yourself. Your self-perception and the way you treat yourself create a blueprint for how others should treat you.
If you consistently demonstrate self-respect and self-love, others are more likely to mirror that behavior in their interactions with you.
In essence, self-treatment establishes a pattern in life—a standard of behavior that communicates what you are willing to accept from others. If you don't value and love yourself, why should anyone else be expected to do so? It's a fundamental truth that underscores the importance of self-respect in shaping our relationships with others.
Teaching people how to treat you requires setting boundaries and asserting your worth. If someone disregards these boundaries or fails to respect your needs and feelings, it may be time to reconsider their place in your life. Respect for the Golden Rule should be reciprocal; if others cannot adhere to it, it's imperative to reevaluate their presence in your inner circle.
Be bold in asserting your worth and advocating for the treatment you deserve. Remember, it's not selfish to prioritize your well-being—it's an essential aspect of self-care and personal growth.